by Manliness…
Is not about the size of the dog in the fight, it’s about the size of the fight in the dog.
If she says to you “I don’t like short guys”, say
“God is very fair, he couldn’t make me both taller AND fuck better, so he had to make me short.”
And then walk away without looking back.
Checkmate.
This is manliness.
By doing this, YOU are now the one doing the rejecting, not her. And you set the frame: You don’t put up with nonsense. No matter whether she is an 11, she has to treat you well to be part of your world, no exceptions.
You actually rejected her for good reasons a) because she was being disrespectful (you CERTAINLY should not reward that behavior with more attention!) and b) because she is being a fool (most of them are) and missing out on what might have been the ride of her life because of “numerical nonsense”.
You completely 100% one upped her. Which is what she NEEDS from a man. Your attention is VALUABLE and only those that earn it, get it.
You placed a high value on yourself.
And now she is suddenly feeling something, deep inside.
There’s a chance she will chase after you, curious to receive more of this very masculine energy – perhaps, just perhaps… this ultra confident, zero fucks given guy might actually be telling the truth.
And if not, well, it’s her loss. Don’t waste another nanosecond on someone who isn’t feeling you. Just your fierce time management is a massive attraction trigger, believe me.
Her rejection reasons are stupid. There aren’t actually any good reasons why she shouldn’t like you.
Your height is COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT. Especially when you are horizontal! 😉
But all of this is good news. Her rejection is actually amazing, because her shitty behavior gives you an opportunity to display manliness and flip the script.
It’s so damn good being a man. Once this hits you, just how amazing it is to be you, you can deliver all these lines with a smile.
A true player LOVES it when women try to knock him off center – in the same way that a man loves to compete against other men.
Can you see now why she pushes on a man based on superficial criteria? She is looking for the one who is above that. Who DOESN’T allow others to determine his value.
And when you carry yourself this way, you will be amazed what happens. Because she is hardwired to respond to it.
You can ALWAYS flip around her shit test. If you are a MAN.
As someone once said: Maleness is a gender, manliness is a position.
This is game.
There are tons of examples of shorter guys who have done extremely well with women. Here’s one from my own experience.
One of my good friends in the old days was a ‘short skinny horse faced guy’. There was nothing of him, he was probably 130 pounds and I am guessing 5’5″. But he was an absolute ladies man. He consistently pulled SUPER FINE women, FREQUENTLY. He was always with a different hottie.
Why? Because he had it going on. He was cool. He had his own clothing company, he was an MC and he had MAD CHAT.
Having the chat is a skill – and women love it. This guy could literally talk their panties off and he did it time and time again. I saw him pick up hot women numerous times. He was so good at it that it was almost a formality, it just happened.
What was amazing was that to me, most of his chat seemed cringe. I would be there thinking to myself “Really? This is so superficial, I can’t believe she’s eating this up” and yet they just ate it up like candy. The IQ of his talk was not stratospheric, but his charisma was off the charts and that’s the part that matters. He got them to feel emotions.
There was an all-female vocalist group in our scene and they were blowing up. They were all fine as. One day, we were performing on the same bill and were at the side of the stage, watching their show. One guy turned and said to me “I love these girls. You can’t touch it, but it sure is nice to watch.” We were just there listening to the songs but mainly, catching an eye full of those four lovely lil asses gyrating on the stage while they did their show. I turned to my short friend and said “This is a sight for sore eyes” or some shit, and he turned to me and said “I’ve bagged two of ’em”. I knew he wasn’t lying either. Women loved him.
He also had skills as a massage therapist and he just knew how to touch girls – socially – in a way that conveyed that he could touch them well in other ways, too. He would put a hand softly on their shoulder in just a certain way when he was talking to them, lock in eye contact and I would watch them turn to putty in his hands.
He was not a “good looking guy”. But he did do his best to be well presented. He dressed well, his grooming was sharp and he had just turned it all around. He ended up better at pulling than the rest of us! You could almost say that his lack of looks and height forced him to level up in other areas – and then he just sailed past all of us.
Like I keep on saying, super strong cards in any suit can get the job done.
Just don’t be telling me that game is fake and looks are everything. If you really believe that, you seriously need to get off the internet (the world’s biggest disaster area for attempted dating) and start looking around the real world. Honestly the best thing you could do is start hanging out with some real players. I’m not saying be a player – and most guys in fact would be content with one fine GF – but you can learn so much from players. Just be chill. And if you can bring some value to the table, be some kind of an asset to the scene, maybe even help them in some way getting girls, they will kick it with you.
Looks help, but in a sense, being born with looks is like being born with money. You don’t develop skills – and you end up worse. I know this because I was a good looking young man and I still messed up the pull and went home empty handed a crazy number of times. Good looks is like having an open goal, it makes scoring easy but you still have to know how to shoot….! So many times when I was a young idiot, women gave me an “open goal” and I didn’t even know it… all I had to do was put the ball in the net but I was too clueless to do it.
I see countless good looking guys who are absolutely useless with women. Until you learn how to shoot, an open goal doesn’t mean jack, you can still trip over your shoelaces, put it wide or hit the crossbar….. while a skilled player will run rings around 4 defenders and score from situations that would be absolutely impossible for others.
It’s exactly like that!!!!!! I eventually learned game and got super good, partly from learning from people who were already super high level and partly from finally trusting my instincts.
But it was too late for all those situations I messed up and all I can say is, if you don’t learn game now you will be filled with regret later for all the chances you blew.
Final Note – there is a difference between being good looking and looking good. You can be short, have a double chin and still be the coolest looking MF in the room. Level up your wardrobe and the many other factors that ARE under your control.
The point at the end of the day is that the biggest disadvantage is not physical… it’s mental.
